Well, for starters, this is something that should—no, must—be written into every MeetUp plan: This group will have lots and lots of parties and social get-togethers. Parties are a way of connecting with another, cementing bonds, and allowing people to let their hair down. They have to be inclusive and encouraging, and then they are an excellent way of bringing everyone together and forging a great relational culture.   That is the deal. It should be much more than just a fun night …